An important part of anyone’s sex life is communication. In times of impulsivity and rawness it’s easy to go non verbal. You know, the passion is raging through your veins and you can’t even think straight in this situation. Having a communication system that is succinct and direct really helps. It gives space for movement […]
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This is the second in my 6 part series of BDSM INTRODUCTION.
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This is just a quick video to introduce the 6 part series of BDSM. This series in no way is meant to be an all purpose guide, and is mainly geared towards novices with a curiosity of how a scene comes about, and for more experienced players that would like to play with me in
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So it begins… This is the first video of 6 series in BDSM – Episode # 1 Trust. Establishing trust is of huge importance in regards to getting to “your place”. By this I mean getting your needs met within a scene. Enjoy this video guys, Mistress B Wilde
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This is the second video of 6 series in BDSM – Episode Establish Limits. As communication is flowing it’s important that- now we understand each other’s desires- we can build a scene together which minimises risk. This is establishing limits through a process called ‘ Negotiation’. Enjoy this video folks Mistress B Wilde
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This is the third video in my 6 part series on BDSM. Episode – Types of Play.I briefly touch on the major sub groups and then will release videos from time to time with specific “types of Play” that I’ll talk about in more detail. Enjoy this video folks Mistress B Wilde
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On to the Fourth video in this 6 part BDSM series : Episode – Safewords So on we go to the safety word talk.Now I’m not really a fan of safety word per say because I find them very limiting. Let me explain that ! In this video I shall explain my reasoning and open up to
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This is the Fifth video in my 6 part BDSM video series: Episode – PlayTime ! So now we’re at the nitty gritty– or really the Fun part. Honestly, all the hard work has been done already, and now it’s time to just relax, and enjoy the moment. Well.. it should be that easy but unfortunately a lot
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This is the final sixth video in my 6 part introduction to BDSM series: Episode – After Care / Cool Down. Aftercare isn’t after the scene… it’s part of the scene. This is hugely important and in this video I’m going to give an explanation of why this is. Enjoy this video folks Mistress B Wilde
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